Falling in love with someone is one of the most thrilling events with the ability to take you through the highest highs as well as the lowest lows. When relationships end, feelings of sadness, loneliness, and hopelessness are common.

Often, even after a breakup you still cannot stop thinking about this specific person obsessively. The feelings you invested in the relationship do not magically disappear.

This happens because when we are engaged with someone we create a strong bond with them on the energetic and subconscious levels.  Research found that two people in love create one, shared bioenergetic field around them, which goes against all laws of physics! Imagine then, that when you separate—you literally take a part of each other with you.

On the other hand, our times of closeness, special music we share, places, activities, jokes, etc. create subconscious anchors in our minds that can trigger nostalgia for the person even when they are long gone. On top of it if you have childhood abandonment trauma, and/or low self-esteem, – break up becomes almost impossible.